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Old 24 February 2018, 07:44
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Originally Posted by CDRODA396 View Post
Jay was one of those guys that when you meet him, you're like woaaa, dude, turn down the volume! Once you got to know him, you realized his energy and volume were how his passion for everything came out. One of those guys that would stop and drop everything to help you with whatever you needed. I was joking recently with all the bike riders in the company, asking them, "I've decided I am going to learn to ride, can I borrow your bike? Of course everyone said no in a not so suitable for work manner, but Jay stopped and talked about several ways to learn, pro's of each and what he thought was best...loved his bikes, loved to help. He's among Warriors now and you can bet your ass he will be at the entrance to welcome everyone in when they arrive, drink in hand and big 'ole shit-eatin grin on his face! Rest In Peace Jay!

As Jay would say.. “turn down for what!??” Baha. I’ll never forget calling him crying about my sorrows and divorce and whatever. He laughed and said get over it... go lift... drink a beer... and get your mind right. Lol. His wife encompasses the same spirit but with a little more gentleness haha. He and his family were one of the first to show up to help me move. As I stood there literally standing still... he was like, “girl... get your freaking head out of the trash and let’s go we got S$$$ to be doing ...” his wife was already leaned back in the truck, feet up in the dash board. For some of the darkest moments in my life, that dynamic pair was my rock and brought many smiles to my face. Keep his wife in your prayers. We did the memorial service yesterday and it’s so heartbreaking to see her pain like this. I can’t help but imagine seeing him again and him talking smack about why we were all crying.... yes with that shit eating grin.
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Old 24 February 2018, 07:56
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What a great story his brother related at the Memorial, "Get a Parade Rest,"...."Yeah, I'm not interested in that right now," Jay in a nutshell...
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Old 24 February 2018, 23:27
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Rest In Peace Brother....
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Old 26 February 2018, 03:55
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Originally Posted by Sado_1 View Post
There are two ways- the Green Beret Foundation is taking donations, as well as a donation account for the family through go fund me. If you want, pm me and I’ll send the info for GBF. This is the link for gofundme.

Got it, thank you. Sorry, I didn’t see this earlier.
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Old 26 February 2018, 06:17
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We bid you adieu Brother, but just for a minute. We will all be along soon enough. Rest Peacefully.
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Old 26 February 2018, 07:53
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Rest in peace........

HOPE MILLS - SFC Jamie Harold “Jay” Otts, 41, of Hope Mills, NC Passed Away on Sunday, February 11, 2018. A funeral service will be held on Friday, February 16, 2018 at 2pm in Jernigan-Warren Chapel. The family will receive friends following the funeral service. Burial with Full Military Honors will take place at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery. Jay was born 01 January, 1977 in Amory, MS; Jay was the oldest of two sons born to Harold Otts. Jay was a prominent member of Special Forces Community. Having served most recently in 3rd Special Forces Group. He had a love for life and a personality so big it would fill the room. He enjoyed being a family man, serving his country, and riding his Harley-Davidson. He is survived by his Wife of 19 years, Crystal Otts, two sons, Tyler and Dakota, a daughter, Harley, Father Harold Otts, Mother Teresa Bynum, Brothers William Hester and Josh Otts, sister Kayla Bynum, His Grandparents, James and Dean Otts, his aunt, Willie Mae Hughley. In Lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the Dancing Angels Foundation PO Box 352, Autryville, NC 28314, or the Jay Otts memorial Fund on
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Old 18 April 2018, 13:02
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RIP brother God speed and prayers for the family
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Old 16 December 2018, 08:29
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Stopped by to see Jay at ANC, a friend of Jay and his brother was there and we exchanged some stories. I had a couple small bottles of Jamison so we gave a toast in his honor. RIP Jay.
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